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Mother Quote by Patti Smith

“Mommy, I said aloud, and I thought of her suddenly stopping what she was doing, often in the center of the kitchen, and invoking her own mother whom she lost when she was eleven years old. How is it that we never completely comprehend our love for someone until they’re gone?” quote by Patti Smith
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““Mommy, I said aloud, and I thought of her suddenly stopping what she was doing, often in the center of the kitchen, and invoking her own mother whom she lost when she was eleven years old. How is it that we never completely comprehend our love for someone until they’re gone?””

Patti Smith

About This Quote

Source Essay: The New Yorker, 2015

The narrator reflects on how loss intensifies love, suggesting we often realize the depth of affection only after someone is gone.

In simple terms: We understand love fully only after loss.

Key Takeaway

Cherish relationships before they end.

Themes

love loss memory reflection family

Mood

reflective somber

Type

emotional philosophical

When to use this quote

  • bereavement
  • family reunions
  • writing
  • therapy
  • memorials

Key Concepts

grief realization empathy

Questions to Reflect On

  • What relationships do you take for granted?
  • How can you express love now?
A Different Perspective

It may overlook love that is present and acknowledged.

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