Child Quote by Patrick Ness
““Oh, poor little Seth, with his poor little parents who didn't love him. You said we all want there to be more than this! Well, there's always more than this. There's always something you don't know. Maybe your parents didn't love you enough, and that sucks, yes, it does, but maybe it wasn't because you were bad. Maybe it was just because the worst thing in the world had happened to them and they weren't able to deal with it.””
About This Quote
Source Book: A Monster Calls by Patrick Ness, 2011
The speaker acknowledges that suffering often stems from circumstances beyond personal control, not personal failure.
In simple terms: Hardships may be caused by external factors, not personal flaws.
Recognize external influences on pain.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- grief counseling
- family therapy
- personal reflection
- support groups
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you differentiate external causes from personal agency?
- What steps can you take to heal from trauma?
It may overlook personal responsibility in healing.