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“Encounters between people, it often seems to me, are like trains passing at breakneck speed in the night. We cast fleeting looks at the passengers sitting behind dull glass in dim light, who disappear from our field of vision almost before we perceive them. Was it really a man and a woman who…” quote by Pascal Mercier
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““Encounters between people, it often seems to me, are like trains passing at breakneck speed in the night. We cast fleeting looks at the passengers sitting behind dull glass in dim light, who disappear from our field of vision almost before we perceive them. Was it really a man and a woman who flashed past like phantoms, who came out of nothing into the empty dark, without meaning or purpose? Did they know each other? Did they talk? Laugh? Cry? People will say: That's how it is when strangers pass one another in rain and wind and there might be something in the comparison. But we sit opposite people for longer, we eat and work together, lie next to each other, live under the same roof. Where is the haste? Yet everything that gives the illusion of permanence, familiarity, and intimate knowledge: isn't it a deception invented to reassure, with which we try to conceal and ward off the flickering, disturbing haste because it could be impossible to live with all the time. Isn't every exchange of looks between people like the ghostly brief meeting of eyes between travellers passing one another, intoxicated by the inhuman speed and the shock of air pressure that makes everything shudder and clatter? Don't our looks bounce off others, as in the hasty encounter of the night, and leave us with nothing but conjectures, slivers of thoughts and imagined qualities? Isn't it true that it's not people who meet, but rather the shadows cast by their imaginations?””

Pascal Mercier

About This Quote

Source Novel: “The Elegance of the Hedgehog”, 2006

Human connections feel fleeting, like brief, impersonal glances, yet we seek permanence in daily life.

In simple terms: Brief encounters seem empty, but we crave lasting bonds.

Key Takeaway

Recognize the illusion of permanence and appreciate present moments.

Themes

transience connection illusion perception imagination

Mood

reflective melancholic thoughtful

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

  • commuting
  • rainy streets
  • office interactions
  • family meals
  • shared living spaces

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology social perception

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you differentiate between illusionary familiarity and true intimacy?
  • What practices help you stay present in everyday encounters?
A Different Perspective

Even prolonged proximity can feel hollow without genuine engagement.

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