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“Marriage is hardly a thing that one can do now and then, Harry. Except in America, rejoined Lord Henry, languidly.” quote by Oscar Wilde
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““Marriage is hardly a thing that one can do now and then, Harry. Except in America, rejoined Lord Henry, languidly.””

Oscar Wilde

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1890

Marriage is portrayed as a rare, serious commitment, especially contrasted with American casualness, reflecting cultural attitudes.

In simple terms: Marriage is serious, not casual, especially in America.

Key Takeaway

Consider the depth of commitment before marriage.

Themes

marriage culture commitment

Mood

thoughtful analytical

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • courtship
  • legal contracts
  • family planning
  • cross‑cultural relationships

Key Concepts

social norms cultural contrast

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do cultural stereotypes affect personal decisions?
  • What values define a serious commitment?
A Different Perspective

The quote may generalize American attitudes.

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