Motives Quote by Oscar Wilde
“It was the passions about whose origin we deceived ourselves that tyrannized most strongly over us. Our weakest motives were those of whose nature we were conscious. It often happened that when we thought we were experimenting on others we were really experimenting on ourselves.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Soul of Man under Socialism, Oscar Wilde, 1891
We are often misled by our own desires, believing they dominate us, while they actually reveal our hidden weaknesses and self‑experiments.
In simple terms: Our desires mislead us about our true motives.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and question your own motives.
Themes
self‑awareness
psychology
power
motivation
Mood
reflective
introspective
Type
philosophical
psychological
When to use this quote
- personal growth
- leadership
- relationship dynamics
- ethical decision‑making
Key Concepts
human nature
self‑deception
control
Questions to Reflect On
- What hidden motives drive your actions?
- How can you test if you are influencing others or yourself?
A Different Perspective
Our self‑deception can blind us to external influences.
