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“I asked the question for the best reason possible, for the only reason, indeed, that excuses one for asking any question—simply curiosity. I have a theory that it is always the women who propose to us, and not we who propose to the women. Except, of course, in middle-class life. But then the…” quote by Oscar Wilde
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““I asked the question for the best reason possible, for the only reason, indeed, that excuses one for asking any question—simply curiosity. I have a theory that it is always the women who propose to us, and not we who propose to the women. Except, of course, in middle-class life. But then the middle classes are not modern.””

Oscar Wilde

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Source Essay: “The Importance of Curiosity”, 1895

Curiosity drives questioning; the speaker suggests women often initiate inquiries, especially outside modern middle‑class norms.

In simple terms: Curiosity leads to questions; women often start them.

Key Takeaway

Embrace curiosity and recognize who initiates dialogue.

Themes

gender dynamics curiosity social norms

Mood

inquisitive analytical

Type

philosophical critical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • social discourse

Key Concepts

questioning initiative class critique

Questions to Reflect On

  • Who initiates the most important questions in your life?
  • Does class affect who asks why?
A Different Perspective

Gender roles may shift, making the claim outdated.

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