Appearance Quote by Osamu Dazai
“To fall for," "to be fallen for"--I feel in these words something unspeakably vulgar, farcical, and at the same time extraordinarily complacent. Once these expressions put in an appearance, no matter how solemn the place, the silent cathedrals of melancholy crumble, leaving nothing but an impression of fatuousness. It is curious, but the cathedrals of melancholy are not necessarily demolished if one can replace the vulgar "What a messy business it is to be fallen for" by the more literary "What uneasiness lies in being loved.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: No Longer Human by Osamu Dazai, 1948
The language we use to describe love can make it feel vulgar or profound, shaping our emotional experience.
In simple terms: Words shape how we feel about love.
Key Takeaway
Choose language that honors emotions.
Themes
love
language
perception
vulnerability
Mood
melancholic
introspective
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- writing
- therapy
- relationship counseling
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
semantics
emotional framing
literary expression
Questions to Reflect On
- What words do you use for love?
- How does language affect your emotional reality?
A Different Perspective
Romantic language can also mask deeper issues, not just elevate feeling.
