Anticipation Quote by Oliver Goldsmith
“Whichever way we look the prospect is disagreeable. Behind, we have left pleasures we shall never enjoy, and therefore regret; and before, we see pleasures which we languish to possess, and are consequently uneasy till we possess them.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Vicar of Wakefield, 1766
Human desire for unattainable pleasures leads to regret over lost joys and anxiety over future cravings.
In simple terms: Wanting what we can't have causes regret and unease.
Key Takeaway
Balance desire with appreciation of present.
Themes
desire
regret
anxiety
Mood
contemplative
philosophical
Type
literary
ethical
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- career ambitions
- consumer choices
Key Concepts
human nature
philosophy
Questions to Reflect On
- What pleasures do you chase?
- How can you find contentment now?
A Different Perspective
Accepting limits may reduce motivation for growth.
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