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Affair Quote by Nora Roberts

“There was nothing wrong with being able to handle things herself. Nothing wrong with wanting to.And she did appreciate Brian's help. And she didn't need caffeine. "I like caffeine," she grumbled. "I enjoy it, and that's entirely different from needing it.Entirely.I could give it up anytime I…” quote by Nora Roberts
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““There was nothing wrong with being able to handle things herself. Nothing wrong with wanting to.And she did appreciate Brian's help. And she didn't need caffeine. "I like caffeine," she grumbled. "I enjoy it, and that's entirely different from needing it.Entirely.I could give it up anytime I wanted, and I'd barely miss it." Annoyed,she snagged the soft drink she'd left on a shelf and guzzled. All right,so maybe she would miss it. But only beause she liked the taste. It wasn't like a craving or an addiction or... She couldn't say why Brian popped into her head just then.She was certain if he'd seen her staring in a kind of horror at a soft drink bottle, he'd have been amused.It was debatable what his reaction would be if he'd realized she wasn't actually seeing the bottle, but his face. No,that wasn't a need, either, she thought quickly. She did not need Brian Donnelly. It was attraction.Affection-a cautious kind of affection.He was a man who interested her, and whom she admired in many ways. But it wasn't as if she needed... "Oh God." It had to be overreaction, she decided, and set the bottle aside as carefully as she would have a container of nitro. What she was going through was something as simple as overromanticizing an affair. That would be natural enough, she told herself, particularly sice this was her first. She didn't want to be in love with him. She began wielding the pitchfork vigorously now, as if to sweat out a fever.She didn't choose to be in love with him. That was even more important.When her hands trembled she ignored them and worked harder still. By the time her mother joined her, Keeley had herself under control enough to casually ask Adelia to work in the office while she exervised Sam. Keeley Grant had never run from a problem in her life,and she wasn't about to start now.She saddled her mount,then rode off to clear her head before she dealt with the problem at hand.””

Nora Roberts

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Girl Who Lived, Nora Roberts, 2018

The narrator struggles with self‑reliance, desire, and the temptation to romanticize a new attraction, realizing she can control her feelings without dependence.

In simple terms: She learns to manage desire and attraction without needing anyone.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and regulate romantic impulses.

Themes

self‑reliance desire control romanticization

Mood

reflective determined hopeful

Type

advice reflective psychological

When to use this quote

  • first love
  • work stress
  • self‑care
  • decision making

Key Concepts

psychology emotional regulation agency

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you differentiate genuine affection from romantic fantasy?
  • What strategies help maintain emotional boundaries?
A Different Perspective

She may underestimate the power of subconscious attraction.

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