““[S]ocial order displays not the absolute presence or absence of intolerance to difference but a spectrum of intolerance. Each of us bears responsibility to some degree for maintaining these protocols of intolerance, which could not be kept in place if every single one of us did not play our part. From bringing up children ‘appropriately’, to lovingly correcting or punishing their inappropriate behaviour, to making sure we never breach the protocols ourselves, to staring or sniggering at people who look different, to coercive psychiatric and medical intervention, to emotional blackmail, to physical violence-it’s a range of slippages all the way that we seldom recognize.””
![“[S]ocial order displays not the absolute presence or absence of intolerance to difference but a spectrum of intolerance. Each of us bears responsibility to some degree for maintaining these protocols of intolerance, which could not be kept in place if every single one of us did not play our part…” quote by Nivedita Menon](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/723/nivedita-menon-63731_beauty-policing_s-ocial-order-displays-not-the-absolute_963124.jpg)
![“We must face the fact that society is founded on intolerance. [. . .] We may prate of toleration as we will; but society must always draw a line somewhere between allowable conduct and insanity or crime, in spite of the risk of mistaking sages for lunatics and saviours for blasphemers. We must…” quote by George Bernard Shaw](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/dcb/george-bernard-shaw-68_quote_we-must-face-the-fact-that-society-is-fo_2004410.jpg)
![“When gentle persuasion [of children] falls on deaf ears, we resort to ridicule and rebuke. Then we return to threats and punishment. This is the modus operandi of a mutual frustration society.” quote by Haim Ginott](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/2c0/haim-ginott-22986_children_when-gentle-persuasion-of-children-falls_2934682.jpg)
![“[E]ven today, when confident and self-affirmative lesbian identities have emerged and are available to women, images of 'lesbianism’ are still regularly appropriated by a male heterosexual pornographic imagination which cannot accept that this is one party to which men are not invited and at which…” quote by Nivedita Menon](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/55b/nivedita-menon-63731_male-gaze_e-ven-today-when-confident-and-self-affi_176734.jpg)
![“[D]emanding wages for housework (…) forced recognition of the fact that the domestic work which women do has economic value. But many feminists feel that this demand leaves untouched the sexual division of labour - indeed, measures like paid maternity leave (…) can be seen as a form of’wages for…” quote by Nivedita Menon](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/e1e/nivedita-menon-63731_feminism_d-emanding-wages-for-housework-forced-re_1136879.jpg)
![“[O]nce we give up on the idea that only heterosexuality is normal and that all human bodies are clearly either male or female, more and more kinds of bodies and desires will come into view. Perhaps also, one body may, in one lifetime, move through many identities and desires. The use of,queer’…” quote by Nivedita Menon](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/745/nivedita-menon-63731_gender_o-nce-we-give-up-on-the-idea-that-only-h_2711609.jpg)
