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Caring too much Quote by Neal Shusterman

“The question wasn't whether or not I cared about him; the question was, how much? I'm glad Tennyson didn't ask that, because then I'd have to ask myself; and I already knew the answer. I cared far more than was safe.” quote by Neal Shusterman
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““The question wasn't whether or not I cared about him; the question was, how much? I'm glad Tennyson didn't ask that, because then I'd have to ask myself; and I already knew the answer. I cared far more than was safe.””

Neal Shusterman

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Unwanteds, 2009

Caring deeply for someone is a risk; the more you care, the greater the vulnerability.

In simple terms: Love involves risk and vulnerability.

Key Takeaway

Embrace caring despite fear.

Themes

love risk vulnerability

Mood

emotional introspective

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family relationships
  • friendships
  • romantic partnerships
  • caretaking

Key Concepts

psychology ethics emotional intelligence

Questions to Reflect On

  • How much do you risk for love?
  • What boundaries protect you?
A Different Perspective

Excessive care may lead to burnout; balance is needed.

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