Caring too much Quote by Neal Shusterman
““The question wasn't whether or not I cared about him; the question was, how much? I'm glad Tennyson didn't ask that, because then I'd have to ask myself; and I already knew the answer. I cared far more than was safe.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Unwanteds, 2009
Caring deeply for someone is a risk; the more you care, the greater the vulnerability.
In simple terms: Love involves risk and vulnerability.
Embrace caring despite fear.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family relationships
- friendships
- romantic partnerships
- caretaking
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How much do you risk for love?
- What boundaries protect you?
Excessive care may lead to burnout; balance is needed.