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“I still had my innocence of a woman who just wanted to keep her “gifts” for her husband, But what about the innocence of the girls who can’t even spell the word assault? What about the girls who don’t even know how to spell sex? You take away the innocence of young girls who are yet to learn what…” quote by Ndeupewa
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““I still had my innocence of a woman who just wanted to keep her “gifts” for her husband, But what about the innocence of the girls who can’t even spell the word assault? What about the girls who don’t even know how to spell sex? You take away the innocence of young girls who are yet to learn what their bodies are made for. You let your hands become landmarks on bodies you tried to make worlds of… You kill in us the trust we’d ever need to have towards our one day husbands… You create in us a fear every man like yourself might trigger just by being present… You create in us a fear of the dark, but hey they say hope begins in the dark. But who said that is what everyone’s dark needs to look like?””

Ndeupewa

About This Quote

Source Essay: Unnamed author on gendered innocence and trauma, 2020

The passage critiques how society strips young girls of innocence by exposing them to sexual violence and misinformation, fostering fear and mistrust toward men.

In simple terms: Society robs girls of innocence, creating fear of men.

Key Takeaway

Protect and educate girls about consent and body autonomy.

Themes

gender violence innocence loss trust erosion

Mood

somber urgent hopeful

Type

opinion social critique call to action

When to use this quote

  • school curricula
  • parental guidance
  • media representation
  • legal reform

Key Concepts

feminist theory psychological trauma social conditioning

Questions to Reflect On

  • What steps can individuals take to restore trust?
  • How can education reshape perceptions of consent?
A Different Perspective

Addressing systemic abuse requires cultural change, not just awareness.

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