Being real Quote by Mufti Ismail Menk
“When we see others engaging in wrong we should immediately ask ourselves how much wrong we engage in ourselves. We tend to be quick to point at others when we are drowning in the same or worse. In the same way that we would not like others to spread our weaknesses & faults we should abstain from spreading theirs. We should approach them directly to guide them & pray for them & ourselves as well. Satan makes us feel it is fine for us to sin privately but others should be exposed.”
About This Quote
Source Sermon: Islamic teaching, Mufti Ismail Menk, 2010s
The quote urges self‑examination before judging others, highlighting hypocrisy and the need for compassionate correction.
In simple terms: Check yourself before condemning others.
Reflect, correct yourself, then help others.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal confession
- community counseling
- peer mentorship
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How often do you judge others without self‑check?
- What steps can you take to correct your own faults first?
Self‑criticism may be uncomfortable and can hinder honest dialogue.