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Adjustment Quote by Mira Nair

“Marriage of attraction is a gamble anyway, so you might as well marry into a family that is similar to your own, and make that much less of an adjustment. But the 'love marriage', as it is called, is equally common in India now. But it would be interesting to do a comparison of what would work…” quote by Mira Nair
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“Marriage of attraction is a gamble anyway, so you might as well marry into a family that is similar to your own, and make that much less of an adjustment. But the 'love marriage', as it is called, is equally common in India now. But it would be interesting to do a comparison of what would work better. Marriage is hard work, and it is a gamble.”

Mira Nair

About This Quote

Source Interview: Social Issues in India, 2015

Marrying within similar families reduces adjustment stress, but love marriages are increasingly common and viable.

In simple terms: Similar families ease marriage adjustment; love marriages work too.

Key Takeaway

Consider both compatibility and love.

Themes

marriage culture compatibility love risk

Mood

thoughtful analytical

Type

social philosophical

When to use this quote

  • arranged marriage
  • love marriage
  • cultural comparison

Key Concepts

Sociology family dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What factors matter most in a successful marriage?
  • How does culture shape love choices?
A Different Perspective

Cultural expectations may limit personal choice.

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