Definition of love Quote by Milan Kunderaundera
““...because love is continual interrogation. I don't know of a better definition of love. (in that case my friend Hubl would have pointe out to me, no one loves us more than the police. That's true. Just as every height has its symmetrical depth, so love's interest has ts negative the police's curiosity. We sometimes confuse depth with height, and I can easily imagine lonely people hoping to be taken to the police station from time to time for an interrogation that will enable to talk about themselves.)””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera, 1984
He likens love to relentless questioning, suggesting that deep emotional connections involve ongoing scrutiny and vulnerability.
In simple terms: Love is a continuous series of probing questions.
Key Takeaway
Embrace honest, probing dialogue in relationships.
Themes
love
intimacy
philosophy
psychology
communication
Mood
thoughtful
intimate
philosophical
Type
philosophical
reflective
romantic
When to use this quote
- relationships
- therapy
- personal growth
- self‑discovery
Key Concepts
existentialism
interrogation metaphor
vulnerability
Questions to Reflect On
- What questions deepen love?
- When does questioning become intrusive?
A Different Perspective
May imply love is invasive rather than supportive.
