Bearable Quote by Mignon McLaughlin
“Nostalgia for what we have lost is more bearable than nostalgia for what we have never had, for the first involves knowledge and pleasure, the second only ignorance and pain.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: The New Yorker, 1965
Missing what we lost is easier than missing what never was, because loss involves memory, not ignorance.
In simple terms: Loss of known is easier than loss of unknown.
Value experiences you’ve had.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- grieving a past job
- reflecting on past relationships
- appreciating current possessions
- writing memoirs
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What do you cherish from your past?
- How can you create new memories?
May idealize past, ignoring present.