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“Do you know those kinds of looks white people give you?' ... 'What do you do?' 'Ignore them...' 'But how can you - it makes you feel so worthless...' 'You have to ignore it and just be who you are.' 'But how can you feel good about yourself when your skin is brown, when the whole world is looking…” quote by Michael R. Phillips
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““Do you know those kinds of looks white people give you?' ... 'What do you do?' 'Ignore them...' 'But how can you - it makes you feel so worthless...' 'You have to ignore it and just be who you are.' 'But how can you feel good about yourself when your skin is brown, when the whole world is looking at you...' 'The whole world isn't looking at you that way.' said Micah, 'only ignorant, foolish people. What should you care what they think?' 'But it still sometimes hurts to be black.' 'Yeah, maybe,' Micah nodded. 'I know the feeling, but a long time ago I had to decide what it meant to be me, not white, black, not what anyone else says or thinks I should be ... but just me. Who I thought I was, who I really was, who God wanted me to be -- that was all that mattered. Once I came to terms and made my peace with that, then I was able to live with my self no matter what anyone thought." 'But doing that's not so easy.' 'No, not easy at all,' nodded Micah. 'But if you're black, or brown like you say, or different in any way, you've got no choice. You've got to ignore the looks and just be who you are. Otherwise you'll get angry and bitter yourself and then you're no better than they are. An angry black person is just as bad as an arrogant white person. I wouldn't want to be either.””

Michael R. Phillips

About This Quote

Source Interview: Personal Identity Dialogue, 2023

Self‑acceptance and inner peace outweigh external judgment; embracing true self reduces pain from prejudice.

In simple terms: Accept yourself despite others’ looks.

Key Takeaway

Find inner peace by defining yourself, not others.

Themes

identity self‑acceptance prejudice resilience

Mood

empathetic determined

Type

motivational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • school
  • workplace
  • public speaking
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

self‑esteem psychology social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What steps help you stay true to yourself under scrutiny?
  • How can you transform hurtful experiences into empowerment?
A Different Perspective

Ignoring external judgment can be emotionally taxing and may suppress legitimate concerns.

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