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Entangled Quote by Michael Malone

“So entangled are we in our own designs that the concurrent and often conflicting plots of our families, friends, and enemies may come to us as surprises suddenly unraveled or traps suddenly sprung... If no one can see into another's heart, it is probably because no one comes close enough, or stays…” quote by Michael Malone
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““So entangled are we in our own designs that the concurrent and often conflicting plots of our families, friends, and enemies may come to us as surprises suddenly unraveled or traps suddenly sprung... If no one can see into another's heart, it is probably because no one comes close enough, or stays long enough, or listens loud enough over the thump of their own, to see and hear.””

Michael Malone

About This Quote

Source Book: The Last Days of the Luminous, by Michael Malone, 2018

Our personal narratives intertwine, making others' motives unclear unless we truly listen beyond our own noise.

In simple terms: We often miss others' true feelings because we are caught up in our own thoughts.

Key Takeaway

Listen deeply and pause your own inner chatter.

Themes

communication empathy misunderstanding relationships

Mood

reflective thoughtful

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • conflict resolution
  • team meetings
  • friendship building

Key Concepts

psychology social perception active listening

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you create space to hear others without judgment?
  • What habits keep you from truly listening?
A Different Perspective

Even with effort, personal biases can still cloud understanding.

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