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“Why do we always think our pain will be less if we can make others suffer more?” quote by Michael J. Collins
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““Why do we always think our pain will be less if we can make others suffer more?””

Michael J. Collins

About This Quote

Source Article: Psychology of Empathy, 2019

People often think causing others pain reduces their own suffering, but this is a false coping mechanism.

In simple terms: Suffering isn’t lessened by harming others.

Key Takeaway

Seek healthy coping strategies.

Themes

ethics psychology empathy

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

psychological advice

When to use this quote

  • conflict resolution
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

moral reasoning pain perception

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do we compare pain with others?
  • What healthier ways can we alleviate our own suffering?
A Different Perspective

May overlook underlying trauma driving this belief.

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