Finding yourself Quote by Michael Ende
“You wish for something, you've wanted it for years, and you're sure you want it, as long as you know you can't have it. But if all at once it looks as though your wish might come true, you suddenly find yourself wishing you had never wished for any such thing.”
About This Quote
Desire intensifies when it seems attainable, yet the fear of loss can cause regret and self‑sabotage.
In simple terms: Wanting something can turn into wishing you never wanted it.
Key Takeaway
Balance desire with realistic expectations.
Themes
desire
fear
regret
Mood
reflective
cautious
Type
philosophical
literary
When to use this quote
- career goals
- personal ambitions
- relationship aspirations
Key Concepts
psychology of wish fulfillment
self‑sabotage
Questions to Reflect On
- What does this pattern reveal about your relationship with desire?
- How can you manage expectations when a wish seems near?
A Different Perspective
May lead to chronic dissatisfaction if unchecked.
