Toga Quote by Meša Selimović
““Onda je otac rekao: pamti, nesreća je što kod nas niko ne misli da je na pravom mjestu, i svako svakome je mogući suparnik; ljudi preziru one koji ne uspiju, a mrze one koji se uspnu iznad njih; navikni se na prezir ako želiš mir, ili na mržnju ako pristaneš na borbu. Ali ne ulazi u okršaj ako nisi siguran da ćeš oboriti protivnika. Ne upiri prstom na tuđe nepoštenje ako nisi dovoljno jak da to ne moraš dokazivati.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: “Derviš i smrt” by Meša Selimović, 1966
Trust in others is risky; vigilance and self‑reliance protect you, but excessive suspicion breeds conflict.
In simple terms: Be cautious, but don’t become hostile.
Key Takeaway
Balance trust with discernment.
Themes
trust
danger
conflict
Mood
cautious
reflective
Type
philosophical
advisory
When to use this quote
- political negotiations
- team leadership
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
human nature
social dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- When is it wise to trust?
- How do you handle betrayal?
A Different Perspective
Blind trust can lead to betrayal; too much suspicion can isolate you.
