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Come home Quote by Maya Angelou

“You’re itching to be on your own. You don’t want anybody telling you what time you have to be in at night or how to raise your baby. You’re going to leave your mother’s big comfortable house and she won’t stop you, because she knows you too well. But listen to what she says: When you walk out of…” quote by Maya Angelou
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““You’re itching to be on your own. You don’t want anybody telling you what time you have to be in at night or how to raise your baby. You’re going to leave your mother’s big comfortable house and she won’t stop you, because she knows you too well. But listen to what she says: When you walk out of my door, don’t let anybody raise you—you’ve been raised. You know right from wrong. In every relationship you make, you’ll have to show readiness to adjust and make adaptations. Remember, you can always come home. You will go home again when the world knocks you down—or when you fall down in full view of the world. But only for two or three weeks at a time. Your mother will pamper you and feed you your favorite meal of red beans and rice. You’ll make a practice of going home so she can liberate you again—one of the greatest gifts along with nurturing your courage, that she will give you. Be courageous, but not foolhardy. Walk proud as you are.””

Maya Angelou

About This Quote

Source Speech: Unknown (likely personal or interview)

The passage advises balancing independence with humility, recognizing that growth involves both leaving home and returning for support, while maintaining courage and adaptability.

In simple terms: Balance independence with humility and seek support when needed.

Key Takeaway

Embrace growth, return for support, stay courageous.

Themes

independence family courage adaptability growth

Mood

reflective encouraging

Type

advice motivational

When to use this quote

  • starting a career
  • moving out
  • facing setbacks
  • seeking mentorship

Key Concepts

Self‑reliance interdependence resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you know when to return for support?
  • What risks does courage entail?
A Different Perspective

Overreliance on comfort can hinder true self‑discovery.

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