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“we are never done with thinking about our parents, I suppose, and come to know them better long after they are dead than we ever did when they were alive.” quote by May Sarton
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“we are never done with thinking about our parents, I suppose, and come to know them better long after they are dead than we ever did when they were alive.”

May Sarton

About This Quote

Source Essay: The Poetry of Living, 1972

We continue to understand our parents after their death, gaining insights we missed while they lived.

In simple terms: We learn more about parents after they die.

Key Takeaway

Reflect on your parents while they’re alive.

Themes

family memory reflection

Mood

nostalgic thoughtful

Type

reflective philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • therapy sessions
  • writing memoirs
  • genealogy research

Key Concepts

psychology grief posthumous insight

Questions to Reflect On

  • What have you learned about a parent after they passed?
  • How can you honor their memory now?
A Different Perspective

Our perceptions are limited by the present and may be idealized after loss.

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