Being yourself Quote by May Sarton
“One does not "find oneself" by pursuing one's self, but on the contrary by pursuing something else and learning through discipline or routine. . . who one is and wants to be.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Search for Self, 1973
Self‑discovery comes from engaging in external pursuits and disciplined routines, not self‑obsession.
In simple terms: Finding self through action and discipline.
Pursue purpose, not self‑focus.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- career change
- creative projects
- spiritual practice
- education
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What activities reveal your true self?
- How does routine shape your identity?
Overemphasis on external goals may neglect inner reflection.