Erased Quote by May Sarton
““...Failure cannot be erased. It is built in to a life and helps us grow. Failure cannot be erased, but it can be understood. Most people carry around a load of feeling that they bury or pretend is not there because it is too painful and alarming to cope with or because it involved unbearable guilt. Anger against a parent, for example. I knew the tide of woe was rising, that woe that seizes me like anger, and is a form of anger, and I didn’t know what to do to stop it, so I got up and picked flowers, cooked my dinner, looked at the news, all the same usual routine that can ward off the devils or suddenly clear the air as when a thunderstorm seems to be coming and then dissipates….it always happens when there is a galaxy of problems that get knit together into one huge outcry against the sense of being abandoned or orphanhood…””
About This Quote
Source Book: Journal of a Writer, 1975
Failure is an inevitable part of life that, when acknowledged, can become a catalyst for personal growth and emotional healing.
In simple terms: Failure teaches and helps us grow if
Accept and learn from failure.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- therapy
- creative work
- daily routines
- family conflict
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you transform pain into insight?
- What routines help you process difficult emotions?
Understanding failure does not erase pain, it may intensify it.