Disagreement Quote by Matthew Kelly
““The problem is that without an understanding for their meaning and purpose, most relationships quickly become little more than vehicles for the pursuit of selfish and individual goals. Disagreements then become a battle between conflicting interests, rather than a search for a mutually satisfying resolution.””
About This Quote
Source Book: "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People", 1990
Relationships falter when participants pursue self‑interest over shared purpose, turning disputes into power struggles instead of collaborative problem‑solving.
In simple terms: Self‑interest harms relationships.
Seek shared purpose.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- Team projects
- marriage counseling
- community organizing
- workplace negotiations
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What purpose unites your relationships?
- How can you shift from self‑interest to collaboration?
Idealism may overlook practical constraints.