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Disagreement Quote by Matthew Kelly

“The problem is that without an understanding for their meaning and purpose, most relationships quickly become little more than vehicles for the pursuit of selfish and individual goals. Disagreements then become a battle between conflicting interests, rather than a search for a mutually satisfying…” quote by Matthew Kelly
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““The problem is that without an understanding for their meaning and purpose, most relationships quickly become little more than vehicles for the pursuit of selfish and individual goals. Disagreements then become a battle between conflicting interests, rather than a search for a mutually satisfying resolution.””

Matthew Kelly

About This Quote

Source Book: "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People", 1990

Relationships falter when participants pursue self‑interest over shared purpose, turning disputes into power struggles instead of collaborative problem‑solving.

In simple terms: Self‑interest harms relationships.

Key Takeaway

Seek shared purpose.

Themes

relationships conflict purpose

Mood

thoughtful analytical

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • Team projects
  • marriage counseling
  • community organizing
  • workplace negotiations

Key Concepts

Game theory empathy communication

Questions to Reflect On

  • What purpose unites your relationships?
  • How can you shift from self‑interest to collaboration?
A Different Perspective

Idealism may overlook practical constraints.

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