Chance Quote by Mary Schmich
“Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much, or berate yourself either. Your choices are half chance. So are everybody else's.”
About This Quote
Source Column: "The Book of Life", New York Times, 1997
Self‑evaluation should be balanced; neither over‑praise nor harsh self‑critique is helpful, because outcomes are partly random.
In simple terms: Balance self‑judgment because chance influences results.
Key Takeaway
Avoid extremes in self‑talk.
Themes
self‑awareness
humility
probability
Mood
reflective
calm
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- career decisions
- personal goals
- performance reviews
- relationship choices
Key Concepts
cognitive bias
self‑compassion
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you measure your own effort versus luck?
- What balanced language can you use for self‑assessment?
A Different Perspective
Over‑emphasis on luck can diminish personal agency.
