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Born Quote by Mary Karr

“The Lesson You've Got to learn is the someday you'll someday stagger to, blinking in cold light, all tears shed, ready to poke your bovine head in the yoke they've shaped. Everyone learns this. Born, everyone breathes, pays tax, plants dead and hurts galore. There's grief enough for each. My…” quote by Mary Karr
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“The Lesson You've Got to learn is the someday you'll someday stagger to, blinking in cold light, all tears shed, ready to poke your bovine head in the yoke they've shaped. Everyone learns this. Born, everyone breathes, pays tax, plants dead and hurts galore. There's grief enough for each. My mother learned by moving man to man, outlived them all. The parched earth's bare (once she leaves it) of any who watched the instants I trod it. Other than myself, of course. I've made a study of bearing and forbearance. Everyone does, it turns out, and note those faces passing by: Not one's a god.”

Mary Karr

About This Quote

Source Book: The Art of Memoir, Mary Karr, 2015

Life is a series of hardships and lessons, each person endures suffering and learns resilience through shared human experience.

In simple terms: Everyone faces pain and learns from it.

Key Takeaway

Embrace hardship as a teacher.

Themes

suffering resilience humanity

Mood

reflective somber

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • grief
  • taxes
  • family loss
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

existentialism shared experience

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you transform pain into strength?
  • What role does community play in bearing suffering?
A Different Perspective

Hardships can be overwhelming and may not always lead to growth.

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