Benevolence Quote by Mary Catherine Bateson
“When any relationship is characterized by difference, particularly a disparity in power, there remains a tendency to model it on the parent-child-relationship. Even protectiveness and benevolence toward the poor, toward minorities, and especially toward women have involved equating them with children.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: “The Power of Difference,” 1995
Power imbalances often lead to paternalistic attitudes, treating less powerful groups as children.
In simple terms: Power gaps cause adult‑child dynamics.
Recognize and challenge paternalistic assumptions.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- policy making
- education reform
- community leadership
- social work
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you see power dynamics in your life?
- What steps can promote equitable relationships?
Changing deep‑rooted attitudes is difficult.