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Empathy Quote by Marlene Milner

“Vulnerability scares most of us because we've been taught that FEELING our feelings is a sign of "over-sensitivity and weakness". We've taught ourselves to "numb" our feelings because they are too painful. We arrive at vulnerability when we allow ourselves to FEEL rather than think our feelings…” quote by Marlene Milner
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““Vulnerability scares most of us because we've been taught that FEELING our feelings is a sign of "over-sensitivity and weakness". We've taught ourselves to "numb" our feelings because they are too painful. We arrive at vulnerability when we allow ourselves to FEEL rather than think our feelings. It's an inside job of excavating away all the "stuff" that is in the way of reaching our heart, where love and vulnerability live.””

Marlene Milner

About This Quote

Vulnerability is feared because society equates feeling with weakness, leading us to suppress emotions; true openness requires feeling rather than over‑thinking.

In simple terms: Feeling is seen as weakness, so we numb ourselves.

Key Takeaway

Allow yourself to feel fully.

Themes

emotional health self‑awareness authenticity

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

inspirational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • therapy
  • creative work
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

psychology emotional intelligence

Questions to Reflect On

  • What emotions are you avoiding?
  • How can feeling improve your connections?
A Different Perspective

Vulnerability can expose us to rejection or hurt.

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