Around Quote by Marina and the Diamonds
“If you're making too many excuses for someone, agonising over them in a way which takes up all your waking thoughts and feel so nervous around them you could be sick, then they are probably the wrong person.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Unknown, possibly a public statement
Excessive preoccupation with another’s flaws indicates the relationship is unhealthy and likely unsuitable.
In simple terms: Too many excuses show a bad match.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and move on.
Themes
relationships
boundaries
self‑care
Mood
cautious
thoughtful
Type
advice
psychological
When to use this quote
- dating
- friendship
- workplace dynamics
Key Concepts
codependency
self‑doubt
mental health
Questions to Reflect On
- Are you avoiding conflict?
- What limits are healthy?
A Different Perspective
Over‑analysis can mask true incompatibility.
