Acting Quote by Marguerite Duras
“She represents the un-vowed aspiration of the male human being, his potential infidelity - and infidelity of a very special kind, which would lead him to the opposite of his wife, to the woman of wax whom he could model at will, make and unmake in any way he wished, even unto death.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Moderately, by Marguerite Duras, 1960
A man imagines an ideal woman he can control, reflecting his fear of commitment and desire for unattainable perfection.
In simple terms: A man wishes for a perfect, controllable partner, avoiding real commitment.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and confront fantasies that replace genuine relationships.
Themes
commitment
idealization
control
infidelity
gender dynamics
Mood
conflicted
melancholic
thoughtful
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- creative writing
- relationship therapy
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
psychology
fantasy
objectification
existential longing
Questions to Reflect On
- What does the “woman of wax” symbolize for you?
- How do fantasies hinder authentic intimacy?
A Different Perspective
These fantasies can lead to self‑destruction and hurt others.
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