Dinner Quote by Margaret Atwood

“The truth is seldom welcome, especially at dinner.”

Margaret Atwood

About This Quote

Source Essay: The Art of Conversation, 2018

Truth often feels uncomfortable in social settings like dinner, where people prefer harmony over honesty.

In simple terms: Truth can be awkward at meals.

Key Takeaway

Choose honesty wisely.

Themes

communication truth social norms

Mood

thoughtful cautious

Type

essay observation

When to use this quote

dinner parties
family gatherings
political debates

Key Concepts

civility conflict avoidance family dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

When is it appropriate to speak truth at a meal?
How can you soften harsh truths?

A Different Perspective

Truth may damage relationships if poorly timed.

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