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Adversity Quote by Marcel Proust

“We do not succeed in changing things according to our desire, but gradually our desire changes. The situation that we hoped to change because it was intolerable becomes unimportant. We have not managed to surmount the obstacle, as we were absolutely determined to do, but life has taken us round…” quote by Marcel Proust
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“We do not succeed in changing things according to our desire, but gradually our desire changes. The situation that we hoped to change because it was intolerable becomes unimportant. We have not managed to surmount the obstacle, as we were absolutely determined to do, but life has taken us round it, led us past it, and then if we turn round to gaze at the remote past, we can barely catch sight of it, so imperceptible has it become.”

Marcel Proust

About This Quote

Desire shifts as circumstances change; obstacles may be bypassed, making former goals seem insignificant over time.

In simple terms: Our wants change when life changes.

Key Takeaway

Accept that goals evolve.

Themes

change acceptance impermanence

Mood

reflective calm

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • career planning
  • relationship goals
  • political reform
  • personal habits

Key Concepts

philosophy psychology adaptation

Questions to Reflect On

  • What desire has faded for you?
  • How can you adapt to new priorities?
A Different Perspective

Sometimes we must let go of ambitions.

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