Desire Quote by Marcel Proust
““Sometimes to the exhilaration which I derived from being alone would be added an alternative feeling, so that I could not be clear in my mind to which I should give the casting vote; a feeling stimulated by the desire to see rise up before my eyes a peasant-girl whom I might clasp in my arms.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: In Search of Lost Time by Marcel Proust, 1913
The narrator is torn between the joy of solitude and the desire for intimate connection, leading to indecision.
In simple terms: Solitude feels good, but longing for love creates conflict.
Key Takeaway
Balance personal peace with meaningful relationships.
Themes
loneliness
desire
indecision
Mood
contemplative
yearning
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- dating
- self‑reflection retreats
- therapy
- creative writing
Key Concepts
psychology
romanticism
inner conflict
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you prioritize personal freedom over intimacy?
- What fears arise when you consider deep attachment?
A Different Perspective
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