Admiration Quote by Lord Chesterfield
“Vanity, or to call it by a gentler name, the desire of admiration and applause, is, perhaps, the most universal principle of humanactions… Where that desire is wanting, we are apt to be indifferent, listless, indolent, and inert… I will own to you, under the secrecy of confession, that my vanity has very often made me take great pains to make many a woman in love with me, if I could, for whose person I would not have given a pinch of snuff.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: Letters to His Son, 1748
Vanity drives people to seek admiration; when unmet, they become indifferent and lazy.
In simple terms: Desire for praise can cause apathy when unfulfilled.
Key Takeaway
Recognize vanity’s influence and seek intrinsic motivation.
Themes
vanity
motivation
human nature
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
philosophical
observational
When to use this quote
- dating
- career advancement
- creative projects
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
self‑esteem
social validation
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- How does seeking approval affect your decisions?
- Can you find value beyond external praise?
A Different Perspective
Vanity can also inspire positive self‑improvement if channeled wisely.
