Being Quote by Liz Smith
“Do not join encounter groups. If you enjoy being made to feel inadequate, call your mother.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: New York Magazine, 1998
Warns against seeking validation through toxic groups, suggesting self‑worth should not depend on external approval.
In simple terms: Avoid harmful groups that undermine confidence.
Seek self‑validation, not external.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- therapy
- friendship choices
- online communities
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What drives you to seek external validation?
- How can you build internal confidence?
Some may find support in groups despite risks.