Disease Quote by Liz Murray
““It's not that we didn't love one another- we did. I just think we didn't know how to be with one another anymore. No one had prepared us for this, for what to do when tragedy breaks up your family. We had no idea what to do when disease took hold, mental illness struck, when Ma died. And we weren't prepared for what happens when proximity no longer brings you together, and instead connecting became a matter of making an effort toward one another. We were doing the best we cold with what we had.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: "The Power of Resilience" with Liz Murray, 2015
When relationships face crises like illness, loss, or distance, love alone isn’t enough; intentional effort and learned skills are required to stay connected.
In simple terms: Love needs effort during hardship.
Cultivate intentional connection during tough times.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- caring for a sick relative
- supporting a grieving family
- maintaining long‑distance bonds
- navigating mental‑health challenges
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you learn skills to support a loved one in crisis?
- What intentional actions strengthen bonds when proximity fades?
Effort alone may not fix deep‑seated issues without professional help.