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Art love Quote by Lisa See

“I am still learning about love. I thought I understood it--not just mother love, but the love for one's parents, for one's husband, and for one's laotong. I've experienced the other types of love--pity love, respectful love and gratitude love. But looking at our secret fan with its messages…” quote by Lisa See
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“I am still learning about love. I thought I understood it--not just mother love, but the love for one's parents, for one's husband, and for one's laotong. I've experienced the other types of love--pity love, respectful love and gratitude love. But looking at our secret fan with its messages written between Snow Flower and me over many years, I see that I didn't value the most important love--deep-heart love.”

Lisa See

About This Quote

Source Novel: Snow Flower and the Secret Fan, 2005

She realizes she undervalued deep, heartfelt love compared to other love types she identified.

In simple terms: Deep love was overlooked.

Key Takeaway

Value deep, heartfelt love above all.

Themes

love self‑discovery family

Mood

thoughtful nostalgic

Type

literary reflective

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • family gatherings
  • self‑reflection journals

Key Concepts

emotional intelligence cultural tradition personal growth

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you differentiate deep love from other loves?
  • What steps nurture deep‑heart connections?
A Different Perspective

Deep love can be vulnerable and risky.

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