Art love Quote by Lisa See
“I am still learning about love. I thought I understood it--not just mother love, but the love for one's parents, for one's husband, and for one's laotong. I've experienced the other types of love--pity love, respectful love and gratitude love. But looking at our secret fan with its messages written between Snow Flower and me over many years, I see that I didn't value the most important love--deep-heart love.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Snow Flower and the Secret Fan, 2005
She realizes she undervalued deep, heartfelt love compared to other love types she identified.
In simple terms: Deep love was overlooked.
Value deep, heartfelt love above all.
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When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- family gatherings
- self‑reflection journals
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you differentiate deep love from other loves?
- What steps nurture deep‑heart connections?
Deep love can be vulnerable and risky.