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Important decision Quote by Lionel Shriver

“We agreed that whether we became parents would be 'the single most important decision we would ever make together.' Yet the very momentousness of the decision guaranteed that it never seemed real, and so remained on the level of whimsy. Every time one of us raised the question of parenthood, I…” quote by Lionel Shriver
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““We agreed that whether we became parents would be 'the single most important decision we would ever make together.' Yet the very momentousness of the decision guaranteed that it never seemed real, and so remained on the level of whimsy. Every time one of us raised the question of parenthood, I felt like a seven-year-old contemplating a Thumbelina that wets iself for Christmas.””

Lionel Shriver

About This Quote

The gravity of deciding to become parents feels unreal, turning a profound choice into a whimsical notion.

In simple terms: Parenthood feels both huge and distant.

Key Takeaway

Acknowledge the weight of big life choices.

Themes

relationships decision-making parenthood

Mood

thoughtful reflective

Type

philosophical emotional

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • family planning
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

existential dread future planning

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you bring clarity to overwhelming decisions?
  • What small step can make the choice feel more real?
A Different Perspective

The seriousness can be overwhelming, causing avoidance.

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