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Bitterness Quote by Lewis B. Smedes

“When forgiveness is necessary, don't wait too long. We must begin to forgive, because without forgiving, we choke off our own joy; we kill our own soul. People carrying hate and resentment can invest themselves so deeply in that resentment that they gradually define themselves in terms of it.” quote by Lewis B. Smedes
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“When forgiveness is necessary, don't wait too long. We must begin to forgive, because without forgiving, we choke off our own joy; we kill our own soul. People carrying hate and resentment can invest themselves so deeply in that resentment that they gradually define themselves in terms of it.”

Lewis B. Smedes

About This Quote

Source Book: The Gift of Forgiveness, 1995

Forgiveness must be timely; delaying harms personal joy and spiritual health.

In simple terms: Forgive soon to stay happy.

Key Takeaway

Practice forgiveness promptly.

Themes

forgiveness emotional health spirituality self-care

Mood

empathetic hopeful

Type

self‑help inspirational

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • personal growth
  • mental health

Key Concepts

Healing self‑compassion

Questions to Reflect On

  • What resentment are you clinging to?
  • How might early forgiveness change your life?
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