Alive Quote by Lewis B. Smedes
“If we say that monsters [people who do terrible evil] are beyond forgiving, we give them a power they should never have...they are given the power to keep their evil alive in the hearts of those who suffered most. We give them power to condemn their victims to live forever with the hurting memory of their painful pasts. We give the monsters the last word.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Power of Forgiveness, 1995
Warns that refusing to forgive gives wrongdoers lasting influence over victims’ emotions and narratives.
In simple terms: Forgiving prevents monsters from controlling our hearts.
Practice forgiveness to reclaim emotional freedom.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal therapy
- conflict resolution
- community healing
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does forgiveness mean to you?
- How can we let go without condoning wrongdoing?
Forgiveness can be difficult when trauma is severe.