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Coats Quote by Lewis B. Smedes

“Forgiving does not usually happen at once. It is a process, sometimes a long one, especially when it comes to wounds gouged deep. And we must expect some lapses...some people seem to manage to finish off forgiving in one swoop of the heart. But when they do, you can bet they are forgiving flesh…” quote by Lewis B. Smedes
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“Forgiving does not usually happen at once. It is a process, sometimes a long one, especially when it comes to wounds gouged deep. And we must expect some lapses...some people seem to manage to finish off forgiving in one swoop of the heart. But when they do, you can bet they are forgiving flesh wounds. Deeper cuts take more time and can use a second coat.”

Lewis B. Smedes

About This Quote

Source Book: Forgiveness: A Journey, 1995

Forgiveness is a gradual, often painful process requiring patience, especially for deep emotional wounds.

In simple terms: Forgiveness takes time, especially for deep hurts.

Key Takeaway

Allow time for healing.

Themes

forgiveness healing patience

Mood

reflective empathetic inspirational

Type

self-help spiritual psychological

When to use this quote

  • counseling sessions
  • personal reflection
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

psychology emotional resilience spiritual growth

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do we balance patience with accountability?
  • What practices support deep healing?
A Different Perspective

May be misinterpreted as passive;

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