Coats Quote by Lewis B. Smedes
“Forgiving does not usually happen at once. It is a process, sometimes a long one, especially when it comes to wounds gouged deep. And we must expect some lapses...some people seem to manage to finish off forgiving in one swoop of the heart. But when they do, you can bet they are forgiving flesh wounds. Deeper cuts take more time and can use a second coat.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Forgiveness: A Journey, 1995
Forgiveness is a gradual, often painful process requiring patience, especially for deep emotional wounds.
In simple terms: Forgiveness takes time, especially for deep hurts.
Allow time for healing.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- counseling sessions
- personal reflection
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do we balance patience with accountability?
- What practices support deep healing?
May be misinterpreted as passive;