Positive Quote by Leslie T. Giblin
““Negative personalities literally bring out the worst in us, for they highlight all the things that are wrong with us. Positive personalities bring out the good in us, by highlighting something they can approve of. We bask in the sunlight of their approval, and the feeling is so good that we start trying to develop other traits and characteristics to draw approval and give us that good feeling all over again.””
About This Quote
Source Article: Psychology Today, 2018
Negative people expose flaws; positive people highlight strengths, driving self‑improvement.
In simple terms: Negatives show flaws; positives show strengths.
Seek positive influences.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- coaching
- team dynamics
- self‑esteem
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Who influences your self‑view?
- How balance criticism and praise?
Overreliance on approval may cause insecurity.