Ability Quote by Leo Buscaglia
“It is difficult for some people to accept that love is a choice. This seems to run counter to the generally accepted theory of romantic love which expounds that love is inborn and as such requires no more than to accept it. This theory believes that love is a magical force which frees us from all suffering and solves every problem, that it is an end unto itself. To a limited extent, there may be some truths to each of these beliefs, but having the capacity to love is not the same as having the ability to love…”
About This Quote
Source Book: Love: The Art of Loving, 1972
Love involves intentional actions and choices, not just innate feelings; it requires effort and responsibility.
In simple terms: Love is a choice, not just a feeling.
Key Takeaway
Choose love actively.
Themes
love
choice
responsibility
Mood
thoughtful
inspirational
Type
philosophical
motivational
When to use this quote
- relationships
- personal growth
- therapy
- education
Key Concepts
Romantic idealism
psychology of attachment
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you view love as an innate feeling or a deliberate act?
- How can you practice love as a choice?
A Different Perspective
Love alone cannot solve all problems; effort is also needed.
