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Fathering Quote by Lawrence J. Cohen

“My wife was out and I was home alone with Emma when my mother called. She said, "Oh, so you're babysitting?" As politely as I could manage, I answered, "I call it fathering." She realized immediately what she had said and apologized. I realized that when she was a child, and again as a mother of…” quote by Lawrence J. Cohen
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““My wife was out and I was home alone with Emma when my mother called. She said, "Oh, so you're babysitting?" As politely as I could manage, I answered, "I call it fathering." She realized immediately what she had said and apologized. I realized that when she was a child, and again as a mother of young children, father's active involvement with their infants was so minimal that it could fairly be called baby-sitting.””

Lawrence J. Cohen

About This Quote

Source Interview: Parenting Talk, 2015

Fatherhood can be actively involved, challenging traditional gender roles of childcare.

In simple terms: Fathers can be caring parents.

Key Takeaway

Support active father involvement.

Themes

parenting gender roles family dynamics child development

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

educational inspirational

When to use this quote

  • new parents
  • family counseling
  • educational workshops
  • policy discussions

Key Concepts

sociology psychology social norms

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can societies encourage paternal engagement?
  • What barriers do fathers face in caregiving?
A Different Perspective

Cultural expectations may resist change.

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