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“In solitude the mind gains strength, and learns to lean upon herself; in the world it seeks or accepts of a few treacherous supports--the feigned compassion of one, the flattery of a second, the civilities of a third, the friendship of a fourth--they all deceive, and bring the mind back to…” quote by Laurence Sterne
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“In solitude the mind gains strength, and learns to lean upon herself; in the world it seeks or accepts of a few treacherous supports--the feigned compassion of one, the flattery of a second, the civilities of a third, the friendship of a fourth--they all deceive, and bring the mind back to retirement, reflection, and books.”

Laurence Sterne

About This Quote

Source Novel: Tristram Shandy by Laurence Sterne, 1759

The passage warns that relying on others’ false kindness leads to isolation, while solitude strengthens the mind and encourages introspection.

In simple terms: False friendships can mislead; solitude builds inner strength.

Key Takeaway

Value genuine connections and solitary growth.

Themes

trust solitude deception

Mood

thoughtful reflective

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • friendship evaluation
  • creative writing
  • mental health
  • personal development

Key Concepts

psychology literature

Questions to Reflect On

  • Who truly supports you?
  • How can you balance social interaction with solitary work?
A Different Perspective

Not all solitude is positive; some may feel lonely.

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