Accepting Quote by Laurence Sterne
“In solitude the mind gains strength, and learns to lean upon herself; in the world it seeks or accepts of a few treacherous supports--the feigned compassion of one, the flattery of a second, the civilities of a third, the friendship of a fourth--they all deceive, and bring the mind back to retirement, reflection, and books.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Tristram Shandy by Laurence Sterne, 1759
The passage warns that relying on others’ false kindness leads to isolation, while solitude strengthens the mind and encourages introspection.
In simple terms: False friendships can mislead; solitude builds inner strength.
Value genuine connections and solitary growth.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- friendship evaluation
- creative writing
- mental health
- personal development
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Who truly supports you?
- How can you balance social interaction with solitary work?
Not all solitude is positive; some may feel lonely.