Collars Quote by Laini Taylor
“I shudder to think. I might wear lace collars and laugh flower petals and pearls. People might try to pat me. I see them think it. My height triggers the puppy-kitten reflex- Must touch-and I've found that since you can't electrify yourself like a fence, the next best thing is to have murderer's eyes.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Daughter of Smoke and Bone, 2011
The speaker feels vulnerable to being objectified and seeks control through a fierce gaze, reflecting anxiety about intimacy and power dynamics.
In simple terms: Fear of being objectified leads to defensive self‑presentation.
Key Takeaway
Adopt boundaries and self‑assertion.
Themes
vulnerability
objectification
power
intimacy
defense
Mood
anxious
defensive
Type
reflective
psychological
When to use this quote
- social gatherings
- dating
- workplace interactions
- artistic performances
Key Concepts
psychology
social dynamics
self‑presentation
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you protect yourself while staying open?
- What signals convey confidence without aggression?
A Different Perspective
The metaphor may over‑dramatize normal social discomfort.
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