““People have to learn to listen and listen and listen and listen until they finally get it that their partner has their own inner world - that you like apples and your partner likes oranges and that it's okay to like oranges. One of my axioms is that if you want to be in a relationship, you have to get it that you live with another person. That person isn't you. She's not merged with you. She is not your picture of who she is. She doesn't live inside your find. She doesn't know what you're thinking, and you don't know what she's thinking. So you have to back off and move from reactivity to curiosity. You have to ask questions. You have to listen." (Hendrix) (p. 271)””
![“There are a lot of unspoken things with me and Nimai [Larson]. We're very yin and yang, neither one of us really treads on each other's toes. She's this wizard of the rhythm world, and I know nothing about that, but I can dabble with melody and lyrics and that's something she doesn't really have…” quote by Taraka Larson](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/b54/taraka-larson-28711_complement_there-are-a-lot-of-unspoken-things-with_456474.jpg)
