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Believe Quote by Julius Lester

“If I canot know your name, may I light a lamp so I can see your face?' If you sould ever see my face, you will lose me forever.' Why?' Psyche wanted to know. 'Are you ugly? Are you afraid I won't love you if I see your face?' Perhaps I am afraid that if you see my face, it will be THAT that you…” quote by Julius Lester
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“If I canot know your name, may I light a lamp so I can see your face?' If you sould ever see my face, you will lose me forever.' Why?' Psyche wanted to know. 'Are you ugly? Are you afraid I won't love you if I see your face?' Perhaps I am afraid that if you see my face, it will be THAT that you will love and not me.' I understand, believe me. I know what that feels like.”

Julius Lester

About This Quote

A lover fears that revealing their true self will cause the other to love the image rather than the person, leading to loss of intimacy.

In simple terms: Fear of being loved for the wrong reasons.

Key Takeaway

Embrace authentic connection.

Themes

love identity vulnerability trust self‑acceptance

Mood

anxious hopeful

Type

reflective philosophical

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • friendships
  • therapy sessions
  • creative collaborations

Key Concepts

authenticity self‑image intimacy

Questions to Reflect On

  • What parts of yourself do you hide?
  • How does fear shape your relationships?
A Different Perspective

People may still reject you even when you are honest.

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